You are always aiming for perfection, feeling bad even with the smallest slip-up. As a grown-up, you find yourself either working too much or not getting things done, but neither feels good in the end.

You feel like the odd one out in your family, like they don’t really get you. No matter how hard you try, it’s like you’re never enough. Trying to make others happy made you lose your own happiness.

You are the person everyone comes to for advice, but your needs get left behind. Often you’re scared to tell others what you need because you don’t want to bother them.

You are stuck in a bad relationship because you’re afraid to be alone. Feeling not so good about yourself makes it hard to make decisions. Maybe you’re used to feeling unhappy and don’t know how to change.

You have been hurt before and worry it will happen again. Maybe you’re scared to let people get close because they might leave.